Bad boys and Good men by Stephen T. Jones with videoDecember 11, 2010 • By OrganicXpression.com
I believe for a man to thrive in today’s dating world we need to be part bad boy and part good man. My experience has show that most women complain about players and that is why I believe that there will never be a player recession. Think about it every time a woman says there are not good men out there they attract 1 or more players. Trust me I am not mad at players I consider myself part bad boy and part good man. I believe that women shouldn’t be mad at players either especially if they want to play the game. Whether you want to play the game or not you need to know the rules and make adjustment to avoid unnecessary pain.
Here are the rules
- Men are very simple creatures if you need to know what we want just ask us and if you would like us to answer this question again in the future listen to the answer without judgment. If you give us what we want you can turn any man into a good man just as long as you don’t try to fix him.
- Men look for women that let you be honest, FYI a man is not a player if he tells you “I don’t want a relationship” and yes we all will eventually lie if you don’t listen to what we originally said.
- Women complain that most of us don’t know how to treat them and that is because we are all getting our training from our player friends, because that is the only thing that consistently works…real talk.
- I believe that a player is a fake bad boy they tell stories they lie for the sake of lying just know this and don’t try to change them. Oh maybe if I were able to clean him up and show him love…No, a player is a player is a player.
Until there are fewer women out there giving the players what they want players will always thrive. If you have experienced this ask yourself where does my attraction to a bad boy come from? Can I find these qualities in a healthier way in a good man?
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